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| Anastacia before it went missing. Isla Fiesta |
They are husbands and fathers, brothers and
sons, uncles and nephews, cousins and friends, and they are missing.
On Wednesday, March 30th, five friends left Isla Mujeres on a 32-foot boat,
the Anastacia. They were headed toward Cozumel to fish for sharks.
They
have not been heard from since.
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| Waiting for news |
At the fishing coop where the Anastacia
berths, the families wait, faces pinched by worry and love, seeking comfort from
each other.
Eyes brim with tears that quickly
spill with the arrival of more friends, affectionate hugs, and soft words of solace. An upset child, picking up the unsettled mood,
tugs at the sleeve of his mother, plaintively asking: When is papi coming home?
But each new day is a morning filled with
hope and optimism. “Today is the day we
will find them!”
The search coordinating committee is made up
of many islanders including Jorge Fernando De La O Pino papa to Jorge De La O, the
captain of the Anastacia.
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| Javi, Marla, Jorge Sr., and Jill |
Other members
are Marcelo Cupul Ku, Rogelio Digurnay Perez, Marcelino Cupul Avalos, Javier
Martinez Cen, Marla Bainbridge Martinez, Wilberth Ancona Argaez, Julio Sosa
Chuc, and Thelmo Burgos Uc. Jill
Hardekopf is also helping out with her American contacts.
Most of the committee members have taken a leave of absence from their businesses, allowing them to devote time to
finding their family members. In the case of Jorge Sr., the opening for his new restaurant has been delayed indefinitely. Javier
Martinez Cen (Javi) and Jorge Jr. have been as close as cousins since birth. For him, and all of the other families, this
search is intensely personal.
The search grids are based on suggestions
from highly qualified experts from around the world and experienced members of
the community, fishermen, captains, and mates who know the currents and wind
patterns. From early morning to late at
night, coordinators make phone calls to authorities seeking assistance, asking
permission, planning for the next day’s search grid, raising money to pay for
the massive amounts of fuel required, and answering hundreds of emails and
Facebook posts.
All through the day, optimistic words of hope
are spoken. Never give up! We will find
them. Each sunset is the beginning
of a night filled with very little and restless sleep, exhausted brains
spinning with questions. Where are they? Are they okay? What can we do next? Where should the search focus tomorrow?
Deline García Canto talks with pride about how his
papa, Juan de Dios García Povedano (Huacha) and crew aboard the Huachisan III
have been given permission to search in Cuban waters.
They
are tired, worried, and a long way from home, but still searching for their
friends. The Mexican government has initiated
the request for assistance from the U.S. Coast Guard and is still waiting for the reply.
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| Also out searching |
The navy, the harbor
master, and the UltraMar passenger ferry have all assisted. Mexico News Daily, with a readership of 20,000 expats, carried the story a few days ago, as did a TV station in
Houston because Jorge De La O lives there part of the year. A GoFundMe campaign has raised thousands of
dollars to assist with the cost of fuel for the search boats; more is needed.
Locals and expats have come together
to provide basic needs for the five families, waiting without a source of
income, for the return of their husbands and fathers. The search committee is working remotely with
the specialized, volunteer Search & Rescue team from the USA. Their arrival has been delayed, awaiting documentation.
Isla Mujeres is a strongly knit community of
locals and foreigners, all pulling together to bring the five men home safely, hopefully
with an interesting adventure story to tell their children. But the social media network is slowly
picking at the threads of the community, bit by bit, picking and unraveling the
fabric of the island.
Social media is a curse and a
blessing. It is an instant
form of communication. And an instant
form of condemnation and criticism. Why didn’t they do this? Why don’t they do that? I could do this better. Not taking into account the tangled
regulations involved with three separate countries, Mexico, the USA, and Cuba, which haven’t had a diplomatic relationship with the USA from 1960 until just this
year. Permissions are required to cross,
enter, or fly over airspace and oceans.
And not taking into account the personal toll on the families, as
each new rumor is bandied about as “the truth” while family members are left to
wonder: Why wasn’t I told? I am sitting right here five feet away from
the coordinators. Why didn’t they tell
me my son was okay?
And then it’s revealed
to not be the truth, but just a fast-moving rumor spreading like wildfire through the internet, searing the hearts of those waiting for news.
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| Dawn of another day of hope! |
Maybe today is the day that they will find
them!
Be strong, stick together, and
work toward a common goal. It’s what makes
Isla Mujeres such a special place in a complex world.
Hasta Luego
Lynda, Lawrie, Sparky
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